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Jun 25
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I can't get over how hilarious this thread is

http://scienceblogs.com/pharyngula/2009/06/i_get_email_36.php

This is what originally made me spit out my soda:  “The ADA says sure the diabetic can eat sugar, just shoot up enough drugs. CRIMINAL really”

My immediate reaction was to tell my friend with juvenile diabetes he could just Stop Eating Sugar (tm), which would solve all of his diabetic problems!

And then there was this, which just took the cake:

“Wait… Brianp states that European countries have a higher “death rate?”

I think the entire world has the same “death rate…” 100%”

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Jun 09
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Dr. Tiller’s murder has been causing untold frustration recently.  The most obvious reason is, of course, the loss of one of the nfew clinics in the country that performs a necessary medical procedure.  The other problem that I have is, as always, the way that people discuss abortion.

See, the thing is, late-term abortions strike me as being more acceptable than elective abortions, because I always had this thought in my head that if a mother’s life was threatened, or if she was carrying a dead fetus in her stomach, she could have it removed.

But apparently the natural reaction to the phrase “late term abortion” is phenomenon known as a “knee jerk reaction” in which ones brain flies out of ones skull and starts bashing itself on the nearest brick wall.

Here is a good example

So, here we have the beginnings of something sane:

“Tiller did abortions in third trimester, when almost no one else would do them – which meant, inevitably, that he handled the hardest of hard cases. He performed abortions on women facing life-threatening complications, on women whose children would be born dead or dying, on women who had been raped, on “women” who were really girls of 10. His Wichita, Kan., office, barricaded against protesters, was reportedly lined with thank-you notes.”

This quickly degrades into something insane:

“They help explain why Tiller thought he was doing the Lord’s work, even though that work involved destroying something that we wouldn’t hesitate to call a baby if we saw it struggling for life in a hospital bed.”

So, uhm, could someone please explain to me why abortions which are necessary for the health of the mother or because, you know, the baby is dead or almost dead are morally reprehensible?  Have these people ever hear of, you know, anencephaly (Please don’t look at that if you’re squeamish)? Surely they realize that a baby without a brain cannot survive outside of the womb for more than a few hours.  Surely they realize the emotional trauma for everyone involved.  Surely they realize that a 10-year-old rape victim cannot possibly carry a pregnancy to term.

The hard thing about this is that the idea of having to terminate a wanted pregnancy breaks my heart.  I know people in my family who have had to suffer the heartbreak of delivering a stillborn child.  It’s so infuriating because on the one hand there is the suffering and the heartache and the guilt, and on the other hand, there are the people outside of the door writing down your name and cursing you to hell for doing something which is not only legal, but your only real solution.  I don’t know what to say to anti-choicers at this point other than “shame on you”.

I wish I felt like I could blame this solely on misogyny which I am sure plays a part, but at the same time I know there are people who don’t just have it out for women who still think late-term abortions are horrible and wrong.

And of course, I have my o-chem flashcards staring me in the face.  The MCAT is in a week and a half, wish me luck.

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May 12
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I had to read this line about four times

“How can women supposedly acting freely and powerfully keep turning up tales of vulnerability-repulsive sexual partners, pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases, even rape?”

Source: Linda Hirshman

My first reaction is “Uh, because they’re HUMAN.”

I think the “repulsive sexual partners” is the first thing that gets to me.  Mostly because despite being a loud, powerful, successful feminist I was in a soul-destroying abusive relationship for three years.  I get really tired of the “Why don’t they just leave?!” bullshit because for some reason people don’t get that if you hate yourself you’re not going to do anything to make your life better.  The only real way to make things better is a move to external, to focus on how you can make other people’s lives better, but when you are constantly at the whim of a malicious, manipulative, selfish person it is almost impossible.

Once you get to “rape” you’re way too far down the yellow brick road to come back to sanity.  Sorry to break this to you, but you’re likely to get raped whether or not you’re wearing provocative clothing/drinking/doing crazy shit.  I learned this at 11 wearing army fatigues and a baggy white T-shirt at a HAM convention.  Moving on.

Even “pregnancy” and “sexually transmitted diseases” gets to me.  Yeah, I know, these  “free and powerful” feminist women are supposed to conform to the ideals of society too.  They should always make the right decisions so that their parents have something to be proud of.  I think this statement shows her ignorance about Jezebel entirely, because one of the realities of human life is that some people make mistakes, and often what women (especially those who are constantly expected to be bastions of society, like feminists) need is validation.  That their mistakes don’t necessarily make them weak, they can make them stronger.  I’ve made plenty of fucking terrible decisions for myself, but if I spend my whole life deriding myself for them (even those mistakes I continue to make) and not standing up for what I believe in because I feel I am suddenly a bad role model (Is anyone a perfect role model?), I will amount to nothing.

The editors at Jezebel are human.  I am human.  Feminists are human.  My question for Ms. Hirshman is: Isn’t humanity a GOOD thing?

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May 11
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May 05
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LOL

Because the only solution to factory farming is weird shaped meat substitutes!!!*

It is also funny to me that just yesterday someone asked me if there was a vegetarian version of Cooking Mama.

* I think seitan is fricking amazing

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Apr 17
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They say it was brought to the U.S. in Victorian times only as a means of reducing masturbation by limiting sensation, in what has to be the biggest failed medical experiment in history.

Joel Stein, on circumcision.

Exactly what I’ve been thinking ever since I heard this.

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Apr 15
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Can someone explain every boring lecture for my MCAT like this guy?  It would really help, thx.

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